Vietnam is becoming an increasingly welcoming destination for LGBT+ travelers, though it still carries the conservative undercurrents of Southeast Asian culture. Unlike some of its neighbors, Vietnam doesn’t criminalize homosexuality — and in many ways, the vibe is live-and-let-live.
Legal Status
- Homosexuality is legal.
- There are no anti-LGBT laws, but also no formal protections (like anti-discrimination laws or marriage rights — although same-sex unions are no longer officially banned since 2015).
- Gender change is legal under certain medical conditions, and transgender visibility is slowly growing.
Social Climate
- Vietnam is quietly tolerant. While affection in public is rare for any couple (LGBT or not), queer travelers rarely encounter hostility.
- Younger generations, especially in cities like Ho Chi Minh City, Hanoi, and Da Nang, are more open-minded, influenced by global culture and social media.
- In rural areas, discretion is wise, but not because of danger — just due to traditional values.
LGBT+ Scene & Events
- Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon) is the beating heart of Vietnam’s queer nightlife:
- Thi Bar, Whiskey & Wares, and Republic Lounge attract a mixed but LGBT-friendly crowd.
- Drag shows, themed parties, and underground queer events are common — often found via Facebook or local expat pages.
- Hanoi has a smaller but growing scene, with venues like GC Bar or occasional queer film nights and art gatherings.
- Vietnam hosts a Pride Month, with events in multiple cities (especially in August). It’s colorful, grassroots, and full of community spirit, though still modest in scale.
Couple Travel
- Booking hotels is rarely an issue. Most hotels don’t care whether a room is shared by two men or two women. International chains and boutique hotels in big cities are particularly relaxed.
- No need to hide — just be discreet like most locals are, regardless of orientation.
Special Things To Do
- Attend a local drag show — Saigon’s drag scene is surprisingly vibrant and theatrical.
- Visit LGBT-friendly cafés or art spaces, often run by progressive youth in university districts.
- Volunteer or attend talks by local LGBTQ organizations (like ICS Center in HCMC) — for those wanting meaningful interaction.
What to Avoid
- Avoid public displays of affection in very traditional areas, not because of danger, but to avoid awkwardness or discomfort.
- Be cautious in conversations with strangers in rural settings — not confrontational, just culturally shy.
Summary
Vietnam is one of Southeast Asia’s most relaxed and quietly inclusive destinations for LGBT+ travelers. There’s still work to be done socially and legally, but on the ground, the feeling is warm, safe, and easygoing — especially if you’re respectful and culturally aware.
